Want to add some spice to your love life? Have you decided with your partner to make your life a little more spicy? We have 6 easy ways to make it happen.
Many people can't imagine themselves participating in so-called “kinky” sex, or rather they have imagined themselves – various fantasies about role-playing, bonding, wild sex, etc. However, they haven't openly admitted it to their partner. . So if you decide to spice things up in the bedroom, you'll realize that it's a shame you didn't try it sooner. You don't have to identify as kinky to enjoy it, and it doesn't have to involve the infliction of pain, humiliation, or restraint, which might be considered unpleasant experiences under normal circumstances.
Now that that's out of the way, here are some ways to give your sex life a new lease of life:
1. Experiment with binding
Jumping right into the “deep” with nipple clamps and ball gags is a bit much if you're a beginner, but a light binding is ideal and perfectly healthy! You can tie your partner's hands above her head or behind her back with your belt or tie – or you can use handcuffs or anything that can be used for this job. Whatever you choose, you should always be able to release it easily, or break free. If you use handcuffs, place the keys somewhere you can easily and quickly access them.
2. Use a mask
Closing the eyes introduces an element of surprise, which makes things even more interesting. Not knowing that your sexual partner is about to touch her will turn her on so much that you won't believe it. Additionally, because her vision will be "off", her other senses will become even more heightened, making every inch of her body very sensitive.
3. Try different lubricants and stimulant oils
Most couples think they don't need lube during sex, but you really should throw that idea out on the table, because this little bottle can turn out to be your most "reliable" friend. And here's the best tip you'll ever hear: put a small amount of the oil inside your condom before you insert it and you'll feel everything a hundred times more intense. In general, lubricants and stimulants can work wonders in the bedroom, so look for it and you won't miss it!
4. Buy her underwear and try some role playing
Underwear, as you may already know, exists for a reason. So go out and buy her the sexiest set of underwear you'd ever want to see, and have her show you off in it. Do you have a secret role-playing fantasy? Now is the time to explore it.
5. Have sex outside the bedroom
They don't say that hotel sex is the best sex. When you have sex somewhere other than your bedroom, your brain releases extra dopamine, making sex even better. Have sex at the kitchen table, in the bathroom, in the dining room or somewhere outside the house – just make sure no one sees you unless you feel like it. You can use vibrating panties, remote control vibrating eggs, butt plugs and a variety of couples vibrators for every taste.
6. Try some sex toys
Sex toys are the "holy grail" of kinky sex and the best part is that there are so many different ones on the market that you can play with them and never get bored. Now, before you try anything too sophisticated, it's best to start with something simpler, like a vibrator, and then you can get more adventurous.
The most important thing is to communicate with your partner, and agree on what you want to try.
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