Sex toys are not a typical gift. But if you handle the situation with a relaxed attitude and confidence, such a gift can change someone's life for the better.


Make sure you know the recipient of your gift

Sex toys are not for everyone. Before buying a vibrator, ask yourself how well you know the intended recipient. Are there any sex toys that may be against religious or moral reasons? Would it cause problems with the partner or even yours? How often do you have open and honest conversations about each other's sex lives? Have you ever talked about sex toys with them before?


Make sure your gift is appropriate

Although sex toys don't come with age guidelines, it's still important to make sure your gift is something the recipient can appreciate and use. Otherwise, you'd be better off buying a gift card. If you're buying for a friend, make sure it's something that matches their tastes and desires. For example, don't get them an anal toy if they swear they'll never have anal sex. If you're buying for your partner, look for a couple-friendly sex toy that you can use together.


Location and environment are key

Make sure the environment is suitable. In general, she should be quiet and discreet with just you and the recipient. Make sure you open your gift there. You don't want him to take it home and turn on his 20cm dildo in front of his family. Make sure your gift comes in a bag or a plain brown box so she can carry it discreetly without anyone knowing there's a sex toy inside. Never give someone a sex toy at an office Christmas party, no matter how close you are. It may sound funny at the time, but it could lead to very serious problems, even in a court of law.


Start with small steps

If you give the sex toy to your partner, there is a chance that he will reject it in the first place. Tell them that the game is not meant to replace either of you. You took it to make your sex life even better. Talk about how soft the toy is or how strong the vibrations are. Then slowly introduce the toy in bed, to give your partner time to adjust to the idea. If they remain hesitant, put it in a drawer for a while and try again later.